The Promise of Honor

11/21/2024

“Honor your father and mother”—which is the first commandment with a promise—“so that it may go well with you and that you may enjoy long life on the earth.”
—Ephesians 6:2-3 (NIV)

Honor is a concept deeply rooted in God’s design for family and society. In Ephesians 6:2-3, Paul reiterates one of the Ten Commandments, emphasizing its significance by noting the promise attached to it. To honor our parents is not merely about obedience in our childhood years; it is a lifelong posture of respect, gratitude, and care.

God values honor because it fosters unity, humility, and love within families and communities. Honoring our parents teaches us to value the wisdom, sacrifices, and guidance they’ve offered. Even in situations where parental relationships are strained or broken, God calls us to approach them with grace and forgiveness, reflecting His own character.

When we honor our parents, we align ourselves with God’s promise of blessings. This doesn’t guarantee an easy life but assures a life enriched by the fruits of obedience, such as peace, wisdom, and relational health. In a broader sense, learning to honor our parents equips us to show respect and love in other relationships, bringing glory to God in all we do.

Here are a few ways we can bring honor to our lives and the situations we find ourselves in.

Show gratitude

Take time to thank your parents for specific things they’ve done for you. A simple word of thanks or a heartfelt note can mean a lot.

Be present

Spend time with your parents or call them regularly. Genuine connection speaks volumes about honor.

Offer forgiveness

If there are wounds from the past, ask God for the strength to forgive, even if reconciliation isn’t possible.

Provide care

For aging parents, honor may look like assisting them with physical, emotional, or financial needs.

Seek wisdom

Learn from their experiences, even if their lives don’t perfectly align with yours.

When we live out this command, we experience the fruit of God’s promises. Relationships are strengthened, bitterness is replaced with peace, and we walk in obedience to God’s will.

I challenge you to speak kindly and act with consideration, even during disagreements. If you’re able, let your parents know you appreciate their sacrifices and love. If the relationship is strained, pray for God’s guidance to pursue healing and peace. Finally, share this value with your children or others, demonstrating what it means to live out God’s commands.

Heavenly Father, thank You for the gift of parents and the wisdom of Your Word. Help me to honor my father and mother as You have commanded, not out of obligation but out of love and gratitude. Where relationships are strained, grant me grace and the courage to forgive. Teach me to value the blessings that come from obedience and to reflect Your heart in how I treat others. May my life bring glory to You through the way I honor those You’ve placed in my life. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Pastor Jeff

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